FACT NUMBER 1. People are judging you right now.

Yes, it’s really happening right at this moment. Some people don’t like you, and guess what? There’s nothing you can do about it.
Most people don’t even care that you’re alive. The world is vast and you are small, and therefore you may do as you wish and cast your thoughts of those who dislike it to the side.


FACT NUMBER 2. You don’t need everyone to like you.

Not only do most people not know that you exist, and some are judging you, but it totally does not matter even if they are.
Check this out: when people don’t like you, nothing actually happens. The world does not end.

FACT NUMBER 3. It’s your people that matter.

Relationships are weird.
Ok, so you’ve adjusted to the fact that most people in the world are barely aware of your existence, and you’re also conscious of the fact that those who don’t like you are in the obscenely small minority and don’t actually matter. Awesome. Next you need to realize that the people who do care about you, and no one else, are those you need to focus on.
They make you feel good when you’re around them, make you laugh or make you feel like you can just be yourself. They make you feel relaxed or at ease. You’ve shared things with them. They’re important. Focus on them instead.

FACT NUMBER 4. Those who don’t give a fuck change the world. The rest do not.